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Therapy that gets ADHD from day one

✓ ADHD-focused clinical training ✓ Evening appointments available ✓ Receipts for insurance
Sound familiar?

Does this sound like you?

ADHD wears a lot of faces. Bouncing-off-the-walls energy for some, a quiet inner restlessness for others, and often something that gets mistaken for anxiety, laziness or burnout.

There's “now” and there's “not now”

“Later” never quite arrives, then a deadline blindsides you out of nowhere. It's called time blindness, and it's wiring, not carelessness.

You can't start, even when you want to

You know exactly what to do and still can't make yourself begin. That's ADHD paralysis: executive dysfunction, not laziness.

One small “no” can sink the whole day

Criticism or rejection can land like a physical punch. Clinicians call it rejection sensitivity (RSD), and it's exhausting.

Your mind gets loudest at bedtime

The thoughts you outran all day finally catch up the moment your head hits the pillow.

You've masked so long you've lost track of you

Holding it together in public burns more energy than anyone around you can see, and it leads straight to burnout.

You've heard “just try harder” for years

You never stopped trying. You were missing support built for how your brain actually works.

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you're not lazy you're not broken you're not failing you just needed the right support

ADHD isn't a standard part of clinical training

It's not that therapists don't care. ADHD and neurodivergence just aren't a required part of most clinical programs. So if your therapist wasn't trained in it, you end up filling that gap yourself. Here you don't — ADHD is what I trained specifically in, and it's who I work with every day.

What working together looks like

  • Understood from day one
  • Strategies built for neurodivergence
  • Systems that don't run on willpower
  • Work on the ADHD underneath the anxiety
  • A clearer picture of how your own ADHD shows up
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Portrait of Saif Walajahi, an ADHD therapist practising virtually in Ontario
Saif Walajahi
Registered Psychotherapist (Qualifying)
About Saif

I grew up with undiagnosed ADHD

I was diagnosed as an adult, after years of working hard and still falling short of what I knew I was capable of.

I trained as a therapist and kept meeting people who'd sat through years of therapy that was never really built for an ADHD brain. I built my practice around that gap. ADHD is who I work with every day.

  • ADHD-focused clinical training
  • CBT (Beck Institute)
  • ACT & DBT
More about me
Why helloadhd

I specialize in ADHD, and in what tends to come with it

Some sessions are practical: what got stuck this week and what to change. Others go underneath it, at the frustration, the shame, or just making sense of how your ADHD actually works. Most are some of both.

Swipe to see all three

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Real ADHD depth

Dedicated ADHD training, taught by faculty including Russell Barkley, Edward Hallowell, Ari Tuckman, Sharon Saline and Stephanie Sarkis, and a caseload of ADHD brains, so the starting assumptions are right from session one.

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Skills, not just insight

CBT, ACT and DBT skills applied to your actual week, so you leave with something to try, not just something to think about.

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A weekly standing slot

Most people meet weekly, same time, for steady accountability on time management, follow-through and goals, with reminders that actually land.

What I help with

ADHD rarely comes alone

Anxiety, low mood and burnout travel with it more often than not, and they're usually tangled up in the ADHD rather than sitting beside it. We work on them together, so you don't need a separate therapist for the anxiety, the burnout, or the shame.

See what I help with
Anxiety Depression & low mood Rejection sensitivity (RSD) Stress & burnout Low self-esteem & shame Sleep difficulties Relationships
My approach

Real therapy, backed by real evidence

I draw on the approaches with the most published evidence for ADHD, with executive-function support running through all of it, then shape the plan around how your brain actually works and around your goals.

Swipe through the three approaches

DBTDialectical Behavior Therapy
Steady the big feelings

Teaches hands-on skills for the moments emotions and impulses hit full volume. In a randomized trial, DBT skills eased ADHD symptoms and emotion regulation.

Multicentre randomized controlled trial · BMC Psychiatry, 2022
CBTCognitive Behavioral Therapy
Get unstuck and focused

Builds practical systems for planning, starting tasks and quieting “I always fail” thinking. It's the most-tested talk therapy for adult ADHD, including one trial in JAMA.

Dozens of trials · Knouse 2017 · Safren 2010 (JAMA)
ACTAcceptance & Commitment Therapy
Quiet the shame spiral

Helps you stop fighting your brain and move toward what matters, even on low-focus days. Early trials link it to more self-acceptance, less self-criticism.

Emerging clinical-trial evidence
Where we start

What we can work on right now

✓Starting tasks when you're completely frozen
✓Quieting the self-criticism and the “I always fail” loop
✓Overwhelm, shutdown and burnout
✓Time, routines and the things that keep slipping
✓Making sense of a recent realization about yourself
✓The anxiety and low mood that ride along with it
✓Understanding how your own ADHD works: attention, working memory, emotional regulation, motivation
How it works

Two steps

No directories, no intake marathon. One short call, then a first session if it feels right.

01

Book a free 15 minutes

Talk through what's going on and what you're hoping for, and ask anything you want.

02

Book your first session

If we both feel it's a good fit, we'll pick a time and begin.

Who I work with

Young adults and teens across Ontario.

For young adults

Recently realized it might be ADHD?

A late realization brings relief and grief in the same breath. This is a place to make sense of it.

✓Time blindness, overwhelm & burnout
✓Rejection sensitivity & relationships
✓Work, focus & follow-through
For teens

Is your teen capable but stuck?

Capable, struggling, and starting to believe otherwise. Therapy gives them somewhere to work it out.

✓School stress, motivation & focus
✓Self-esteem & big emotions
✓Routines & independence that actually stick
Cost & coverage

Many plans cover it*

Sessions with a Registered Psychotherapist are often reimbursable through Canadian extended health plans. You get a proper receipt with the right credentials; you submit it and get money back. Coverage varies by plan, so I'll help you check before you book.

See how coverage works
Commonly reimbursed under plans like
Sun Life Manulife Canada Life Green Shield Desjardins + more

* Sessions are $180 for 50 minutes, with no HST added. Coverage depends on your specific plan. I practise as a Registered Psychotherapist (Qualifying); many extended health plans reimburse Registered Psychotherapist sessions, though not all do. Many plans cover some designations but not others, and annual limits vary (commonly anywhere from a few hundred to a couple of thousand dollars per year). I'll help you figure out what's covered before your first session.

Plain language

What therapy here actually involves

Insight and practical strategy in the same room, week after week, because understanding why you freeze doesn't get the task started on its own.

What happens here

Therapy, both halves of it

The clinical work: shame, self-criticism, anxiety, low mood, relationships, identity, and the grief that can follow a late realization.

The practical work: ADHD-adapted strategies for time and task management, starting things, following through, and setting goals that survive contact with a real week.

And it's weekly. Most people meet once a week. Each session picks up what happened since the last one, adjusts what didn't hold, and sets the next step, so accountability is in the calendar rather than in good intentions.

From a physician or NP

Medication

Works at the neurochemical level on focus and impulse control, and has strong evidence for core ADHD symptoms.

Good to know

Questions, answered

Yes. Therapy built for ADHD has real research behind it, and it reaches the parts a prescription can't. You build practical systems for focus and follow-through, steady the big emotions, and unwind years of “just try harder” shame, on its own or alongside medication. See the evidence →
It's the most common worry I hear, and the reason this practice exists as it does. ADHD is what I trained specifically in, and it's the whole caseload: executive function, rejection sensitivity, masking and burnout. You won't be handed generic worksheets.
No. Many people here are still figuring it out or waiting on an assessment, and adult assessment waitlists in Ontario commonly stretch for many months while going private isn't cheap. You don't have to white-knuckle it until then: whether or not you ever pursue a formal diagnosis, we can work on the things that are hard right now. I don't diagnose ADHD and I don't prescribe medication, that's outside what a psychotherapist does, so if a formal assessment is what you need I'll point you toward it on the free call.
Sessions are live, face-to-face video.
Sessions are $180 for 50 minutes. Many extended health plans reimburse a Registered Psychotherapist, though it depends on your plan. You get a receipt with my registration details to submit.
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